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Decisions, Decisions, Decisions, and Man’s Worst Enemy!

August 29, 2014

Decisions!  We all make them.  For better or for worse, man/woman is stuck with them.  It’s part of our own personal hell on Earth.  We’re faced with more decisions each day than we are with dilemmas.  To quote some song lyrics here, “do this, don’t do that.”  It’s all about what we  decide  that can make good things bad or bad things good.

Often times we are faced with a decision that takes more thought than others.  Many times, people don’t think before they decide on anything.  I see this everyday in not only people around me but in myself as well.  Do I do this or that?  Should I say this or that?  What will the effect be if I do this or say something?  It’s something everyone and I mean everyone should think about before doing or saying things.  Yes, somethings should be automatic.  But many things you do or say will have a vast effect on others and how they treat you.

This entire treatise goes along with my second thought more than anything.  Man’s/woman’s own worst enemy is himself/herself!  That’s right.  Do you want to know the reason why?  I’ll tell you what I’ve deduced over the years because I’ve realized what has caused me more pain and suffering than anything.  It’s man’s/woman’s decisions that make him/her in the eyes of others as well as how he/she feels about themselves.

Is there a recourse for the hell we put each other through?  I’d like to think so.  My thought is that most if not all people base their decisions on to little information.  Alas, sometimes you don’t get all the information you need prior to making a decision.  Sometimes, you don’t have the time to gather up all the information you need.  Other times people have the time they need to gather the necessary information to make a proper decision.  Yet time and time again, those decisions are often in error.  This is why I continue to say man/women are their own worst enemy and will continue to be so.  Enough said.